Does my indoor cat need a friend?

Although cats have a reputation for being solitary creatures, they are gregarious animals who thrive on building intimate ties with other animals. Today, our Ruckersville vets discuss getting another cat if you already have one, and how to introduce them to each other.

How to Tell if Your Cat Wants Another Cat

Changes in behavior, such as erratic sleeping or eating patterns, can indicate that a cat is lonely. If your vet agrees that you should get a second cat, here are seven signs that your cat would benefit from feline companionship.


If your cat meows a lot, follows you around, and won't leave you alone, it may require more social interaction. This very demanding conduct could signal separation concerns.

Excessive Grooming

Obsessive grooming, which could be a self-soothing mechanism, could also indicate that your cat would benefit from a companion. If your cat has unusual grooming habits, don't assume he's lonely; it could be a sign of a medical problem. If you notice your cat is unkempt and not grooming himself as much, this could be an indication that he or she is lonely or sad, but you should first consult a vet.

A Shift in Sleeping Habits

A change in sleeping habits may indicate loneliness. If your cat is sleeping a lot and no longer interacts with you, she may be lonely and depressed. However, as with any other habit change, it is critical to rule out any medical issues first.

Litter Box Issues

Stress or loneliness can be indicated by unusual litter box behaviors. If your previously litter-box-trained cat starts peeing in other areas of the house, you should contact your veterinarian right away. Cats are creatures of habit, and when their routine changes, it's like a flashing neon sign to humans.

Odd Eating Habits

Is your cat consuming more food than usual? It could be the result of boredom or a lack of social stimulation. When there is nothing else to do, the cat, like people, may turn to food. Alternatively, the cat may stop eating due to depression. A change in eating habits, on the other hand, may indicate a medical problem, so consult your veterinarian first.

Getting a Cat When You Already Have One

If you've consulted your veterinarian and have determined that there are no medical issues, it could be that your cat is just lonely and needs a friend.

However, it can be tough to know if a cat is ready to live with another cat, but a cautious introduction process will help them get off on the right foot. Here are some steps you can follow and questions to ask yourself:

  • How is your cat getting along with the other cats in the neighborhood? If your cat dislikes other cats entering their territory and becomes agitated or angry when this occurs, it could be a hint that they would not accept sharing their home with another cat. Bengals, for example, are ideally suited to being sole cats.
  • Cats who are related get along better than cats that are not related.
  • Younger cats are more likely than older cats to accept new feline members of the household.
  • Because of the lack of hormones, neutered cats get along considerably better than unneutered cats.
  • Is your house large enough to give each cat their own space where they can get away from other cats if they want to?

What about if one of my cats dies?

It is natural for owners to want another cat to keep their remaining cat company after the death of a cat who shared a home with another cat. Before getting a new cat or kitten, we recommend giving your surviving cat some time to adjust to life without their mate. Cats have unique social needs, so even if they have lived happily alongside another cat for many years, they may no longer feel the need for another companion.

How do I know my cats like each other?

Cats with strong bonds frequently exhibit clear signs that they consider themselves to be members of the same social group. These indicators include grooming, sleeping, and lying next to each other. They may greet each other on a regular basis by touching noses or making a small meow as they pass.

Is your cat displaying any of the conditions listed above? Before getting a new cat, bring them here to Ruckersville Animal Hospital for an exam first.